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Friday, June 12, 2020

"Can You Cheat on Someone in Middle School?"

Cheating in general is an old aged behavior. It means to act dishonestly or unfairly to gain something. The driver in the vehicle of cheating is greed. In other words, the force behind every act of cheating is greed or being self-centered. Some , among the many situations in which people cheat are as follows :

-Giving of wrong balance when someone purchases something.

-Extension of land boundaries into others’ plots.

-Uneven distribution of a country's wealth among its citizens.

-Exploiting a country's resources beyond agreement.

-Secretly having sex with someone other than your husband, wife, or partner. This is called “cheating on someone.”

I cannot cheat on someone in middle school because they are too young to establish a relationship with less cheating. 

    I am not encouraging relationship in middle schools but if someone in middle school is mature ,enough say a colleague , for me to have an affair with, I will never cheat because I like to behave to other the way I will expect them to behave to me.       When I was in middle school, I discovered a lot of cheating in relationships. This often led to quarrels, fighting and hatred. Below are some of the reasons why this happened and I still observe them today among students in the middle school.

-Most students in relationships are very ignorant. They go after materials possessions and not true love especially the females. Because the boy cannot provide up to expectations need is seen go somewhere.

-Some males are not able to satisfy a girl's sexual need so they tend to where this need will be satisfied. Some males just want to have sex for pleasure with no intimacy in the relationship.

-The way of dressing. When a females dresses in a way that is seductive, this easily causes cheating because most boys are emotionally weak and are easily carried away by this.

Friends also cause peers to cheat. Peers at times want to copy what others do. You need to be careful with the type of friends you move with and the advice they give you.

-The environment you live in. If a child grew in a promiscuous environment, he or she will likely behave in the like manner when the opportunity presents itself anywhere.

What do you do if someone has cheated on you?

-Examine your self. May be it is a replay of what you have been doing. If you find an element of guilt in you, take some time and change your ways. This is because people often want to stay free from blames and attribute it to others. This means you leave the source of a problem and chase the effects instead of facing it. Apologize to your partner for copying your wrong behavior. Two wrongs don't make a right.

But if you find no guilt in you, invite your partner and expose his or her ills. If accepted, forgive him or her then give very stern warning that it should never repeat itself again. You may go for medical checks to be sure no one is infected by a venerable disease like the HIV Virus. If one is affected by HIV, I propose the relationship be rounded up peacefully for the sake of life and good health.


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